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Christmas is coming...

We're already having a much busier December than last year. Although fewer people this year have signed up for The Alternative Christmas List (works like our wedding lists, your friends and family 'buy' one of the donations to charity rather than buy you a pair of socks) more people are actually using theirs when they do sign up - we've previously had lots of people who signed up for a Christmas list but then realised they were the ones who were going to be without presents so didn't actually use it. This year it seems that more people are realising that this is really the best sort of 'charity Christmas' to have, i.e. where you forsake presents YOU would have received rather than simply buying your family a charity gift they may not want (although obviously doing both, if your family approve, is even better!).

Having said that, we've also had quite an uplift of donations through our 'one-off' charity gift service Gifts 4 Good (where you make your donation instead of buying a physical gift and, instead of all the expense of gift cards, envelopes, postage etc, you just get a nice simple emailed PDF to send to the 'recipient'). The uplift started in November, and December's already our best month for the service so far. It's always been a bit of a 'sideline' as most people still seem to want something physical to show for their charity gift but maybe the whole 'green' angle is helping as well (having done the right thing why not go the whole hog and avoid wasting even more money).

My favourite piece of festive fare this Christmas has been from the charity Buglife, one of the recent additions to The Green Gift List. They've teamed up with children from St Augustine’s Junior School, Peterborough, to record a new version of a traditional Christmas song – ‘The Twelve Bugs of Christmas’. You can hear the song and see the accompanying film by clicking on this link: http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=_4-Bomnkd1w. Well worth a listen!

Andy

what a week...

Just had a really busy/eventful/emotional week...

Started off last Tuesday by having a few days mid-week break in Krakow with one of my daughters, Lauren (who's having a few months break between A-levels and starting a degree). It's a really lovely city, the old town is a great wander, some of the buildings are amazing, and the open-air market in the main square was good for picking up one or two Christmas presents. We also made a visit to Auschwitz-Birkenau, a few miles out of Krakow, an incredibly moving experience - so difficult/impossible to take it all in and I think I left with as many questions as answers (most of which I suspect can never really be answered, mostly those beginning with 'why'?).

It can be an interesting challenge trying to keep up with Give It while away from my desk (when and when not to lug your laptop around) - however, internet access in the hotel lobby; couldn't be easier! Back to the office on Saturday - having worked while away there wasn't much to catch up on but, with it being first of the month, lots of numbers to crunch over the next couple of days.

On Monday, took a few hours out to attend the funeral of an old work colleague. Just 55, cancer, great bloke/husband/dad. Lots of old colleagues there to remember him.

Then finally, this Tuesday, an early start, so I could get away in good time and get to see my youngest daughter Charli in the opening night of Romeo and Juliet at her college - she's playing Balthazar. Great performances from so many of the students (Juliet and Mercutio in particular) and, of course, from Charli (who opened the play - much emotion from proud father!).

I'm worn out!

Andy

Our last wedding show this year

We exhibited at our final show of the year yesterday, the last of the season's gay wedding shows. Great fun and quite relaxed - one of our favourite acts of these (or indeed any) shows are The Three Waiters. Pretending to be waiters at your event/wedding they suddenly burst into song, and at the shows they also provide a little entertainment to keep us wide awake.

It was also great that one of our registered couples came along and said hi - Lyn and Deb get hitched in March and had a few things left to find - great news that they'd already decided on their gift list!

On the charity front - lots happening! Suddenly a few we've been asking to come onboard are saying yes so lots of work in letting them know how things work, how we can get them setup on the gift lists, and then finally working on the details ('gifts' etc) that will actually become part of the lists. We're trying to get as many of the new charities sorted by the new year as that's when we tend to get a big increase in next year's marrying couples signing up. Last week however we also had a charity, that we've been talking to for a year that we wanted to try and raise money for through our Scottish gift lists, come back to us and let us know that they weren't going to join up - always a dissapointment after so much work but it just means the door is open for another.

Andy

Social Enterprise Day

Today is Social Enterprise Day - for many social enterprises it's an opportunity to celebrate their achievements within the communities they operate. Away from all the wedding fairs it can often feel like we're a little remote from our 'community' (the couples who use our wedding lists? the charities we generate money for? the end recipients in various countries of that money?) as for reasons of cost/efficiency we try to keep engagement to a minimum (i.e. mainly using the internet/email etc).

For us Social Enterprise Day is more about feeling part of a wider movement of different types of organisations trying to operate in the right way and make a difference at the same time. Although we're based just outside the capital we're members of Social Enterprise London and this gives us access to a variety of practical help, advice and other opportunities (including featuring on Shop Social Enterprise) - although we're not heavily involved it's really good to know they're there.

Meanwhile we're working on bringing a tranche of charities onto the various services in time for the new year;

The Green Gift List is one of our new services for 2008 and we're adding more charities there ready for the new year. One of these is elephant family who I went to see on Monday to start agreeing gifts for the website - there'll be some great ideas ("nibbles" - I'll say no more).

Bringing charities onto The Scottish Wedding List has been more of a challenge - as, generally, we have an idea of the ideal range of charities that we'd like on there (based on the sorts of charities that couples already select and also ask us for) we have a list of charities that we've already identified and been trying to bring on for the best part of a year. With many charities having such small fundraising teams it can take a while to get things moving, even when everybody wants to! Things seem to be picking up and so we're hopeful of getting the right mix of charities live for January.

Getting charities live for The London Wedding List was a little easier, although we're still adding a few more for next year - this service only went live in mid-2007, effectively missing the wedding season, so we're excited for what 2008 will bring.

Andy

Wedding shows = exhaustion

We're coming to the end of the Autumn wedding shows that we attend. They're great fun but absolutely exhausting - a typical three day show involves Thursday set-up followed by three solid 8-hour days on Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Over the last few weeks we've been to The National Wedding Show at Earls Court in London and the NEC in Birmingham as well as The Designer Wedding Show in Battersea Park, London.

Piccy is of one of our volunteers, Lauren, at Earls Court.

We've got two more to go in November, one in Manchester, one in Brighton, both are Gay Wedding Shows - based on our experience of previous years shows they'll both be great fun as they tend to be more relaxed than other events (fewer mother-in-laws).

As we don't get let out that often we find all the shows are really good for getting a sense of how couples are taking to the idea of having a charity wedding list and getting feedback on lots of different aspects of the various services (types of charities, how it's used etc). From when we first started going to wedding shows more than three years ago (when we first launched The Alternative Wedding List) we've found that more couples have heard of the concept (not necessarily obvious as it's a new group of marrying couples every year) but also that more have already made their decision (even though it's often a 'no' most are kind enough not to give us our leaflets straight back, even though we prefer it if they do!). The conversations with couples who are thinking about going for it have become even more in-depth over the years - they're really good for challenging us about how we're going about things.

Popular discussion this Autumn was around The Green Gift List, our newest gift list service with a range of environmental and conservation charities - very topical!

Andy

here goes...

So here I go, first entry in the blog - I'm hoping to share the trials and tribulations of being part of Give It, a social enterprise that's dedicated to generating funds for charities.

Comments and feedback welcome.

Andy